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    Casandra Rosario Unites Young Urban Professionals Through ‘Food Before Love’

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    Casandra Rosario, creator of FoodBeforeLove.com (Image: Source)

    Many millennials can relate to having to choose between their passion and what pays the bills. But some aren’t willing to sacrifice what drives them for the taste of success, especially when you can create your own recipe.

    When puertorriqueña Casandra Rosario realized their wasn’t an outlet for young professionals who enjoyed eating out on a reasonable budget, she created a website now known as Food Before Love in June 2012.

    “I was looking on the blogs and I didn’t find anything that I cared to read that was targeted toward me, so I started my website,” says the Harlem, New York native.

    Her decision to create the site, which later bloomed into a business, allowed Rosario to use her Hospitality and Service Management degree from Rochester Institute of Technology. It’s been a little over two years since the chief foodie created her brand and we caught up with the #bossbabe to discuss becoming an entrepreneur full-time, being Afro-Latina and why Kelis is her fave.

    What went into your decision to become a full-time entrepreneur and to focus on FoodBeforeLove.com 24/7?

    I was doing the 9-5 and doing my thing on the side for a while. But the company was taking up a lot of my time, my 9-5 as well. It became one of those things where I was miserable, dreading going in to work. I would get up and I would not want to go to work. It wasn’t like I had an epiphany like ‘Oh, let me do this thing and try it out and see what it’s like.’ It was more like I hate this job, I love my company; what do I want to do? Do I want to sit here miserable all the time and try to manage my company on the side, or do what I love and be happy? That seemed so much easier. I’m all about convenience.

    Whatever you’re going to do, make it work; make it happen. I think that’s like the biggest thing. I think people make a lot of excuses. I’m still guilty of that as well; I think it’s just a matter of remembering your purpose.

    Remember why you’re running whatever you’re running. Stay true to that and do it with everything that you have.

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    Millennial professionals gather at a Food Before Love event. (Image: Casandra Rosario)

    Since launching Food Before Love, how has your blog led you to other opportunities?

    I’ve gotten to meet a lot of great industry professionals through my work and people in general that come out to our events. It’s really fulfilling for me when people come out and they try something new or they meet someone new. That’s exciting to me. That’s why I have my company, so that people can expand their palette; have new food experiences. That has been extremely fulfilling for me.

    With that, I’ve met other people that have made other things possible like being able to travel with the company, sponsorships and things like that. Just getting the brand exposed to as many people as possible has opened up doors.

    How do you identify? Do you use the term Afro-Latina, or prefer another term?

    I use it and then I don’t. It really depends on the context of the conversation. I use it more now than I did before but that’s because I’m still new to it. I’m embracing it more now, so I get to say it more often but it’s still complicated because people still don’t understand what it means to be Afro-Latina, and I’m still learning a lot about what it means as well.

    I have African ancestry in me, so I do identify myself as Afro-Latina for those who do want to get into the conversation with me. We can talk about it. For the most part, I say I’m Puerto Rican.

    Growing up, was there every a time you felt different from your peers?

    Yeah, I mean, it’s a combination of experiences. There wasn’t one specific moment because there were so many things that happened over, and over, again that you don’t even realize. I guess it’s just always kind of been that way. When I was in elementary school, I used to hang out with the Spanish girls. When I got to high school, I hung out with the Black girls. When I got to high school, I realized I might not be Spanish enough for these people. When I’m with my Black friends, I’m the Spanish girl that’s with them. They’re like, Cas, you’re Black like you’re one of us kind of thing. I didn’t understand what that meant at the time because I wasn’t identifying as Afro-Latina; I wasn’t even thinking about it.

    Of course I felt some type of way as a kid. I mean, I speak Spanish fluently. I was just like, why can’t I be cool with the Spanish girls when I speak Spanish, too?

    Which Latina do you most identify with and why?

    I love Kelis! It just so happens that she’s Puerto Rican, Black, Chinese and from Harlem. I love her and I’ve always identified with her because she’s her own person. I think she’s never let whatever she is identify who she is, and she’s always kind of done her own thing and she hasn’t given a f*ck about it. She is who she is and there are no boxes for her. She is just Kelis.

    You can follow FoodBeforeLove.com on Twitter and Instagram at @FoodBeforeLove

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    WATCH: Things Black Latinos Are Sick of Hearing

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    “Your origin is like Africa?”

    “Can I touch your hair?”

    If you’re Black Latino, you already know where I’m going with this. Yes, the sh*t we hear on the regular is incomprehensible (to put it lightly). So, when I came across Flama‘s “Things Black Latinos Are Sick of Hearing,” I DIED! Normally, in real life, some of these things would really annoy me, but the video pokes fun at both non-Latinos who just don’t get how you can be Black Latino and how Afro-Latinos respond to the poking and prodding. You’ll have to see if for yourself, below:

    What do you think of the video? Let us know in the comments section. 

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    ‘Real Talk: Women in Tech in Silicon Alley’ Makes Diversity Topic of Conversation

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    Real Talk panelists (l-r) Ariel Lopez, Christina Morillio and Rachel Brooks with moderator Janel Martinez.

    Diversity in technology has been a huge topic of conversation over the last several years, but took center stage toward the middle of the year. Big name companies such as Google, Yahoo, Twitter and Facebook released their diversity figures, which revealed what many in the space already knew: There aren’t many of us working at said companies. But Black, Latinos and women are definitely present.

    An article released by Newsweek (What Silicon Valley Thinks of Women), highlighted many of the issues women in San Francisco face. However, many of those same issues are faced here in New York City’s tech scene. Not to mention, there’s an added layer as a woman of color navigating the tech terrain.

    It’s why I joined forced with digital destination Techncolor to present “Real Talk: Women in Tech in Silicon Alley” in collaboration with Social Media Week NY and sponsors such as Path Interactive and Bottlerocket Wine & Spirit. Techncolor founder Lisa Leid and I tapped Afro-Latinas in tech, Rachel Brooks, Ariel Lopez and Christina Morillo.

    These ladies provided lots of tips and resources, and shared their story with attendees. Check out the discussion in our Storify, below:

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    Join ‘Ain’t I Latina?’ & Techncolor for Social Media Week 2015

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    Hola mi gente!

    Social Media Week 2015 kicked off this week! I’m excited to cover many of the panels and events taking place. (Check out the #SMW15 and #SMWNYC hashtags for a glimpse—yeah, #thankmelater.)

    But I’m really excited about collaborating with fellow techie and founder of digital destination Techncolor on an intimate event this Wednesday, titled “Real Talk: Women in Tech in Silicon Alley.” As a journalist who covers tech in NYC, let’s say, it get’s real out here. However, despite the “say what?” and “hell nah” moments, it hasn’t held back many of the powerful women entrepreneurs and innovators I’ve had the pleasure of getting to know. A recent Newsweek article and the social media reaction that followed brought up a lot of relevant points surrounding women in tech in Silicon Valley (San Francisco), so we wanted to discuss the current climate here in NYC. I hope you’ll be able to join in on the conversation!

    We only have a few spots left, but you can RSVP here: http://bit.ly/1B2bxTi . You can follow the conversation through #SMWrealtalk.

    Huge thanks to our sponsors, which includes Social Media Week NY, Path Interactive and Bottlerocket.

     

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    15 Signs You Grew Up Honduran

    Cosmopolitan-for-Latinas_15-Signs-You-Grew-Up-HonduranRecently, I wrote an article for Cosmopolitan for Latinas entitled “15 Signs You Grew Up Honduran.” Can I tell you, I had to laugh when writing some of these down.  I love my culture!

    Here’s a snippet from the article:

    5. Family always came first. If you didn’t live within walking distance from your primos or abuelos, your family would always gather for a little bonchinche over machucaMachuca prep was no small feat, and you would always be in charge of one of the following: (1) Handling the sopa de pescado or coconut soup, (2) boiling the platanos and mashing them (it helps when you imagine the platano was yoursinvergüenza ex), or (3) setting the table.

    6. You speak Spanish, English, and un poquito de GarifunaIf someone walks up to you saying, “Buiti binafi” (“good morning”) or “Buiti guñoun” (“good night”), nod, smile, and repeat.

    7. Any playlist had to have a punta mix. Merengue, salsa, and bachata usually make the cut, but when the punta hits, everyone from your great-aunt to your littlest baby cousin would move their hips to the three-beat rhythm.

    8. Somehow, you’re related to everyone you know. “Wait, you’re cousins with who? ¡Ay mama!” Yep, your dating options were pretty slim.

    Click here to read the entire article. 

    For my Hondurans, let me know what you agree with or certain things you might’ve added to the list. I’m thinking I’ll add on to this list and keep the conversation going. Comment in the section below! 

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    ‘ Branding and the Millennial Woman’ Panel Provides Crucial Career Tips

    Syracuse University and the Latino Student Alumni Network of Syracuse University alongside other SU organizations joined forces to host “Branding and the Millennial Woman” on Thursday, January 22.  Moderated by author and well-known Afro-Latino blogger Anthony Otero, the panel featured millennial power women Emmelie De La Cruz, founder of The Branding Muse; Jessica Santana, founder and CEO of World Wide Boss and co-founder of Brooklyn On Tech; Macia Batista, co-founder of Be Moxie; and our very own Janel Martinez, founder of Ain’t I Latina?

    The roughly hour-long discussion delved into branding as a young professional, how to juggle your profession and business (or when it’s time to leave your fulltime) and the importance of having a digital presence, among various other topics. If you missed it, don’t worry! You can catch the conversation, below, via our Storify:

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    Be Moxie Co-founder Macia Batista On Embracing Career & Culture

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    This week, we’re featuring millennial professional and entrepreneur Macia Batista as our Everyday Chica. La dominicana spoke with Ain’t I Latina? about launching Be Moxie, identifying as Afro-Latina and how Latinas can take their career to the next level.

    You started Be Moxie, a platform aimed at helping young women, specifically first-generation immigrants and women of color; achieve their personal and career goals, with Joannie Diaz and Aline Murta. What inspired you all to start Be Moxie? 

    Be Moxie began out of sheer frustration and honest conversation amongst friends. Joannie, Aline and I have known each other since college. Since graduating and even while in school, we always had these moments of ‘I wish I would’ve known this, known that, been prepared for this, etc.’ Fast forward to the present, as young, ambitious women in the midst of our careers, we are still in search of resources for women like us, women of color, first generation women – Be Moxie was then born.

    You were born in the Dominican Republic and came to New York City, where you were raised. You excelled in school, graduating with a BS in Psychology from Le Moyne College and now working at one of New York’s top business schools. What would you say has been the key to success for you? 

    Perseverance and humility. From adopting the English language as my own to being the first in my family to graduate college, success for me has always been about hard work and dedication. With every triumph and success, I reflect on my journey that has led me to this point in my life and where it all started. Never forgetting, ‘para saber a donde vas, tienes que saber de donde vienes.’

    What are three tips Latina millennials can employ to take their career to the next level?

    1- Personal Branding: One of the most common mistakes millennials make is not investing or creating a powerful personal brand. We live in a digital world, whether it’s via your LinkedIn or Twitter, make sure that the content you are sharing aligns with your brand.

    2- Find a Mentor: When seeking career advice, especially when it involves a job recommendation or simply how to deal with a difficult situation at work, a mentor is the ideal person to ask for help. Having an experienced professional who can help guide you to the next step in your career is imperative to success.

    3- Grow your Network: As a rising professional, having a network both in and outside your line of work is invaluable. Nowadays when the majority of opportunities are shared via connections, it’s important that you get out there and attend career/networking events, exchange business cards, and establish your brand.

    How do you identity? Do you consider yourself Afro-Latina, or use another term to describe your race and/or ethnicity?

    I identify as Dominicana, Latina and Caribbean. As a woman of color, I do consider myself to be Afro-Latina. In the Dominican Republic, as it is in other parts of Latin America, there is sometimes a denial of our African roots when we are in fact a melting pot of our European, indigenous, and African ancestors. I feel most connected to my Taíno and African roots.

    What is your earliest memory of identifying as Afro-Latina? How did you come to identify as such?

    I remember in middle school my classmates and even some teachers thought I was from South East Asia, India to be specific. During career day one year, an interpreter from the United Nations came to speak to the class. She introduced herself and asked the class a question in Spanish. I responded. Everyone was shocked and could not believe that this quiet, tall, brown girl was Latina. I wish I could relive that moment!

    I learned at a young age that people will make assumptions and categorize me without my consent. That Latinas weren’t one shade on the color spectrum, and that I had a responsibility to educate them on our diversity.

    Which Latina matriarch do you most identify with and why?

    Dominican-American poet and novelist, Julia Alvarez‘s entire career has been marked by the blend of her American and Dominican cultures. Through her writings she celebrates what it is to be Latina and its complexity.

    Who inspires you?

    My sisters are my true inspiration. They inspire me each and every day to follow my dreams, to never settle for less and to always remember to keep smiling! I am so blessed and thankful for the gift of my sisters.

    You can follow Be Moxie on Twitter at @Be_Moxie

     

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    ‘She Souled Out’ Vlogger Dania Cristobal Shares Her Journey

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    This week, we’re featuring millennial video blogger Dania Cristobal as our Everyday Chica. La guatemalan spoke with Ain’t I Latina? about launching her vlog, She Souled Out, identifying as Afro-Latina and why her mom’s her biggest inspiration. 

    You’ve just launched your YouTube channel She Souled Out. What inspired you to launch it? What topics will you address on your channel?

    There are a number of reasons why I created this YouTube channel. I love connecting with people and YouTube found me at an interesting time in my life. I just graduated from college and things did not work out the way I had imagined career wise. YouTube took my mind off of things, and inspired me to go after what I want. Also, that life is a blessing and it’s all about being dedicated.

    Talk to me about your line of paraphernalia, Hair I Am.

    I wanted to create a symbol of self-love. I feel like our younger generation look toward many things to define their beauty instead of actually loving what they see in the mirror. I created this button line as a symbol of empowerment. Eventually I aspire to create shirts in the future. I just want the button to be a reminder that all women are beautiful!

    How do you identity? Do you consider yourself Afro-Latina, or use another term to describe your race and/or ethnicity?

    I used to identify myself as Hispanic but always had a long explanation of my African-American side as well. I feel like the term Afro-Latina clicks for me and defines who I am to a tee. Once I heard this term, it was like I looked for this term my whole life. I am a proud Afro-Latina.

    What is your earliest memory of identifying as Afro-Latina/Blatina/Latinegra? How did you come to identify as such?

    I had an experience in high school where a group of Spanish boys expressed their disdain for me. They said I was trying to be ‘Black.’ That carried with me because I am very proud of my Guatemalan culture. It just showed me how some people have certain stereotypes of what a real ‘Latin’ women should be. As our times change, I hope to show that there is more than one way a Latina woman should look. As long as you’re proud of your heritage, that is all that should matter.

    Who inspires you?

    My mother is my ultimate inspiration. The way she carries herself and the way she taught me how to find the beauty in all things.

    If you’d like to nominate someone for our EverydayChica feature, please email us at aintilatina@gmail.com, or hit us up on Twitter or Facebook!

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    What Gina Rodriguez’s Golden Globes Speech Meant to Me As a Latina

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    Gina Rodriguez’s Golden Globes speech stole the show and our hearts. The first-time nominee and winner of the Golden Globe for Best Actress in a Comedy Series beat out well-known actresses such as Edie Falco (Nurse Jackie), Taylor Schilling (Orange Is the New Black), Julia Louis-Dreyfus (Veep) and Lena Dunham (Girls) for her role in Jane the Virgin.

    I’ll admit, I wasn’t watching the star-studded awards show, but I was on social media, which means I was practically watching it via Twitter and Instagram. Shortly after the 30-year-old boricua actress delivered her speech, my timelines went crazy. A meme with one of her powerful lines came across my Samsung Galaxy 5 and I knew I had to listen to it in full.

    “This award is so much more than myself – it represents a culture that wants to see themselves as heroes.”

    ¡Dios mío! Rodriguez was speaking firsthand to the experience and journey of many Latinos in the U.S. Her powerful speech resonated with me on so many levels, but I could relate to these three points made:

    The American Dream

    “Thank you Mom and Dad for telling me to dream big and to never stop dreaming.”

    Like Rodriguez, my parents encouraged me to dream BIG. No matter how untraditional, they just want me to be happy and take advantage of opportunities they didn’t have. Many of our grandparents or parents who’ve ventured to America for a better life did not have the option to work in the same career they did back home, or even choose one they really like. It’s whatever paid the most and put food on the table at the time.

    I have to thank my own parents and grandparents for the sacrifices made. If not for them, I wouldn’t think I could achieve the things I set my mind to.

    Representation in Media

    When it comes to the portrayal of Latinos in media, it’s either nonexistent or problematic. I won’t deny the progress that’s been made. I mean, Rodriguez just won a Golden Globe, but we need more realistic representation on TV and in magazines, among other places.

    “I didn’t see color as a young girl; I used to think we didn’t even exist,” she told The Hollywood Reporter in an interview. Many Latinas can relate.

    I’m still waiting to see a Latina president, or a lead that’s Latina and looks like me. Still waiting…

    “I Can and I Did”

    Rodriguez’s speech left me feeling inspired. Her journey has added more fuel to my passion of capturing our stories. Look forward to having my own “I can and I did” moment.

    Thank you, Gina!

    Here’s the full speech:

    What stood out most for you in Rodriguez’s recent Golden Globes speech? Let me know what you think in the comments section.

     

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    Millennial Entrepreneur Giselle Martinez On Being Latina & Starting Her Delectable Business

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    This week, we’re featuring millennial entrepreneur Giselle Martinez as our Everyday Chica. La dominicana spoke with Ain’t I Latina? about turning her passion for baking into a business, identifying as Latina and why her mom’s her biggest inspiration. 

    As a media production specialist, you’ve worked on various projects and companies including MTV and MTV Tr3s. How did you get your start in media?

    It’s funny because I kind of fell into it. I went to school for business and was working fulltime as an after-school counselor with the YMCA.  In the summer of 2006, my best friend was working at MTV Tr3s, which was getting ready to launch in the fall. I had just left my job with the YMCA and had no idea what I was going to do next. I spent a lot of my new free time visiting my friend at her cool MTV office in Time Square. I was in awe of the place, especially because it was an almost all Latina staff working together to launch this bilingual channel. I spent so much time there helping out that one of the producers eventually hired me as a production assistant. I stayed with MTV Tr3s until 2010 when the offices moved to Miami, Fl. I’ve since worked with a few other networks and production companies, but MTV Tr3s and the ladies I worked with will always have a special place in my heart.

    You are an entrepreneur, making your own line of delicious cake pops. Has baking always been a passion of yours? Talk to me about your baking business.

    I have always loved to bake. When I was young I used to go into my mother’s kitchen and pretend I was hosting a baking show on TV. I’ve always found baking to be therapeutic and relaxing, especially now that I have my own kitchen and don’t have to take out all of my mom’s pots and pans out of the oven first.

    I started out making cake pops for friends as gifts, then I began making them for special occasions like birthday parties and baby showers. Working as a production freelancer sometimes leaves me with a few weeks in between gigs so in order to supplement my income I started to sell the cake pops by the dozen. My business is just kicking off and I’m still working on a name and logo, but in the meantime I enjoy sharing my cake pops with people outside of my immediate friends and family.

    How do you identity? Do you consider yourself Afro-Latina, or use another term to describe your race and/or ethnicity?

    I’ve always identified myself as Latina. It wasn’t until I was older that I started hearing terms like Afro-Latina or Latinegra. To me the beauty of identifying as Latina has always been the diversity of it, we come in all sorts of different colors, shapes, sizes and styles. A Latina can be anybody from a light-skinned chica with blonde hair and blue eyes to a dark skinned woman with brown eyes and kinky/curly hair. I don’t have anything against the term Afro-Latina, and yes I identify with it too, I just don’t see the need for the specific term. You can see my afro by looking at me and hear that I’m Latina when I speak.

    What is your earliest memory of identifying as Afro-Latina/Blatina/Latinegra, etc? How did you come to identify as such?

    I grew up in a Dominican neighborhood and went to school with mostly Black and Latino students. It wasn’t until I went to college and started working that I began to get asked the infamous “what are you?” question.

    I don’t know how many times I’ve been asked, “You’re not Black?” when people hear me speak Spanish, or they tell me that I “don’t look Dominican.” I used to get upset and say “Please tell me what you think a Dominican looks like because I can pick out 10 very different looking people and they are all as Dominican as it gets.” I didn’t have to look any further than my own first cousins to choose from. Now, when people ask about my background, I don’t get upset; I just say, yes, I am Black. I also happen to be of Dominican descent and speak Spanish. They are not mutually exclusive.

     Which Latina matriarch do you most identify with and why?

    I don’t know if she’s old enough to be considered a matriarch, but I know Zoe Saldana is well on her way to becoming one. I cannot get enough of that woman. She is such an amazingly talented artist and has starred in some of the biggest movies in recent years. But she still has such a humble aura about her. I love that she is so family oriented and doesn’t put on airs. Hearing her speak about her family and tell stories about how she grew up, I feel like we could’ve been in the same family. As proud as she is of her culture, she has not let herself get pigeonholed into stereotypical Latina roles. I see her and I see myself and my cousins, Latinas that were born in the US but with strong ties to our cultural background.

    Who inspires you?

    My mother is my first and biggest inspiration. She is the strongest, selfless, loving, most abundant woman I know. I am also blessed to have been continuously surrounded by powerful women in my life. Being around so many amazing women in turn inspires me to be my best self.

    If you’d like to nominate someone for our EverydayChica feature, please email us at aintilatina@gmail.com, or hit us up on Twitter or Facebook!