The defining moment when I acknowledged my Afro-Latina identity…
In my study abroad program, Paris Noir. That was really meaningful to me because it delved deep into the Diaspora. I think that’s also an important word and an important concept that a lot of people don’t really understand, and don’t really look at. From that experience, really listening and taking in what the African Diaspora is, made be decide, you know what, I am Black, my ancestors are African and I’m a Latina. Yes, I’m Dominican but I’m a Latina. I identify as Afro-Latina.
My mother’s an inspiration to me because…
I have seen my mom for the past 25 years just do the best that she can and work really, really hard and struggle to make sure that me and my two sisters have a better life than she did.
I really look up to my mom because she had me in her early 20s and she came from one country, the Dominican Republic, and immigrated to the United States, and that’s not easy. It’s not easy at all, especially not knowing the language. Just being in a place that’s not your norm; being in a place that’s not familiar and then coming to a place with a kid.
A journey…
Shows you different things about yourself and you learn different things about yourself, and from there you’re able to take those experiences and just apply them to what you do on a day-to-day basis and be able to inspire and motivate others.
Advice to my younger self…
Learn your history, especially your family and cultural history. Don’t be afraid to ask questions about your family and where everyone comes from. Whenever you can, talk to your grandmothers (both of my grandmother’s passed away) and ask them about their lives and their stories. Also, read books in English and Spanish so you can balance both languages well.
…Stand up for yourself and your identity. Once you are secure within yourself, you can do anything you set your mind to and inspire others to do the same.
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